Reformed Church, Bellville: Sunday 21 September 2003 Morning Service

Our help is in the Name of the Lord who made heaven and earth.
Beloved, grace and peace be with you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ through the mighty working of God the Holy Spirit. Amen

Psalm of praise: 116:1, 3 & 5
Confession of faith
Ten Commandments
Psalm 40:4
Prayer
Hymn 33:1-3
Scripture reading:     Titus 3 
Text:    Titus 3:3

"We were ... hateful and hating one another"

In these days we are all under stress because of murder and rape and violence. The issue becomes highly emotional and we lose our perspective. Accordingly it is worthwhile to look into the Bible to learn how the Lord sees these issues in our day and how He deals with them.

We consider the issue from three sides:

1.    Does God want all this violence?
2.    Are we any better than the murderers and violators?
3.    How do we go forward?

1.    Does God want all this violence?

The answer is clear - the Lord hates murder, rape and violence. They are all transgressions of the sixth commandment.

The principle is that God alone disposes of life.
We take a negative stand towards people who commit these sins and particularly when they do so to us personally.
Is it possible for murderers, rapists and assaulters to be saved? Of course it is. We must pray for them to repent.

There is another principle at work in this matter - the Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins. Where does the forgiveness of sin fit into this problem?
It would be well to remember that these sins were with us from the beginning. Some of the best believers were guilty of them. Hear what the Lord has the prophet        Nathan say to David:

"Why did you despise the word of the Lord by doing what is evil in His eyes? You struck down Urah the Hittite with the sword and took his wife to be your own. You killed him with the sword of the Ammonites". (2 Samuel 12:9)

Remember what Solomon said when he spoke of Joab in 1 Kings 2:32:

"The Lord will repay him for the blood he shed, because without the knowledge of my father David he attacked two men and killed them with the sword. Both of them - Abner son of Ner, commander of Israel's army and Amasa son of Jether, commander of Judah's army - were better men and more upright than he."

Remember also Jehoram who established with violence the kingship he had received by murdering all his brothers. This is related in 2 Chronicles 21:4

"When Jehoram established himself firmly over his father's kingdom, he put all his brothers to the sword along with some of the princes of Israel."

Hosea writes that even the priests (in the Lord's church!) did the same  (Hosea 6:9)

"As murderers lie in ambush for a man, so do bands of priests; they murder on the road to Shechem, committing shameful crimes".

The evil we experience today is not new. In the days of the early Christian Church it was there already. Paul writes of it in his Epistle to the Romans. (Romans 1:29)

 "They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice."

The people who do these things confirm by it their unbelief and also the fact that they will be lost forever. The Lord reveals in Galatians 5:21 that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
2.    Are we any better than the murderers and violators?

Nobody can exult in the Lord's grace if he allows sin to rule him.
A person whose relationship with God is wrong also demonstrates all sorts of wrong attitudes to other people. Think for example of statements sometimes heard such as "I wish he were dead" or "I cannot bear so and so" and similar expressions.

These kinds of expressions originate in the heart of someone who does not understand the Lord's love and whose heart has not united with the love of God.
Is the opposite possibly true? Amongst us there are some who are always quarrelsome and angry with others. Is it not because our own image of God is distorted that causes us to clash with others who perhaps were able to conserve their image of God with greater holiness than us? Are we then in essence any better than murderers, rapists and assaulters?

An unrepentant person is always quarrelsome. It is so written.
I read to you 1 John 3:15:

 "Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life in him."

From this we infer that a murderer could be a church member. Perhaps even a good member.
This should be a warning to us all. We are often intolerent of one another. Intolerance and envy are the same as hate. In the eyes of the Lord this is murder.

A believer is continually struggling with his own sins before God.
Those of us who are so unforgiving of the sins of others must think of this, because we cannot expect perfection of others if we ourselves do not strive for it.

We read in Ephesians 1 that before the creation of the world the Lord chose in him certain people. We are those people.
But God's love for Jesus Christ determines that those who do not accept Him and do not worship Him shall be lost. His righteousness demands that all who are unbelievers shall be punished as are those who are untrue in their worship. This affects me in my responsibility and in the witness I bear.
3.    How do we go forward?

That the Lord in His Being is set against all forms of killing and violence is quite clear. But that is not the end of it. We live in a country where we are confronted daily with these deeds and many of us have personally suffered them.

It is not true that the Christian faith demands of us some namby-pamby kind of forgiveness. Obduration is not forgiven! God does not expect of us to forgive that which He does not forgive.

On the other hand we may not remain angry about a matter that we have not tried to put right.
Jesus teaches us something similar where He tells us of the unmerciful servant who was severely tortured by his master until he paid back all that he owed - Matthew 18:35 -

"This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart."

How should we then act towards our neighbour?

Romans 13:14 furnishes the answer:

"Rather clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature."

We may not allow evil to find a foothold. Live in love and forgive in love.
"But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins" (Matthew 6:15)

"So watch yourselves. If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if  he repents, forgive him. If he sins against you seven times in a day and seven times comes back to you and says "I repent" forgive him." (Luke 17:3,4)

For this Christ died. So that in His love we can forgive and forbear with love. So that we can live as we let live and forgive as we are forgiven.

Amen

Closing prayer: We plead, O Lord, for your mercy. Keep us in Your love and fidelity. We are in conflict, because sin attacks us in our weary insights and thoughts. Give our eyes the shine as of those who see You in that we may with the power and courage of our Lord Jesus Christ defeat the endlessness of sin. Amen

Closing Psalm: 128:1

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.  Amen

Dr M.J. du Plessis
Reformed Church Bellville
21 September 2003